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How to Master Negotiation and Resolution?


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How to Master Negotiation and Resolution?

By Simon Scott

In the intricate dance of negotiations, the true art lies not in conquering the other party, but in crafting a resolution that both sides can embrace with enthusiasm. It’s not about winning at all costs, but about finding a common ground where both parties can comfortably coexist.

However, navigating this delicate balance is not without its challenges. Several formidable barriers often stand in the way of successfully negotiating a conflict. These barriers include emotions and their attached meanings, intentions, the rigidity of rules, and the influence of deeply ingrained values and beliefs and judgement. Additionally, a lack of choice can cast a shadow over the negotiation table.

Emotion and Meaning

Emotion is intrinsically tied to the meanings we ascribe to situations and outcomes. If we attach the meaning that our very existence hinges on winning a negotiation, the resulting emotions will be intense and overwhelming. Conversely, if we view the matter as inconsequential, our emotional response will be far more subdued. Recognizing and managing these emotional undercurrents is pivotal to successful negotiation.


Negotiations cannot bear fruit until both parties share the intention of reaching a resolution. This intention may arise naturally during the information-sharing process or be nurtured by proposing alternative solutions. Leveraging the consequences of these alternatives can motivate the parties involved to commit to settling their dispute. A delicate balance must be struck, as excessive focus on leverage too early in the process can hinder open and fair negotiations.

Rules, Values, and Beliefs

Beliefs, shaped by our rules and values, often form the foundation of our convictions about what is right or wrong, true or false. Yet, in this intricate web of perceptions, we simultaneously occupy the realms of being right and wrong. What may seem unquestionably right to us can appear completely wrong to someone else. Negotiation breakthroughs often hinge on the ability to introduce the idea that alternative perspectives are rational and reasonable. It might mean demonstrating that a belief isn’t an absolute truth, that a rule isn’t universally applicable, or that a particular value doesn’t entirely fit the situation.


The power of choice cannot be overstated. When individuals make decisions of their own volition, they embrace them wholeheartedly and act upon them with enthusiasm. A single proposition offers an option, but when presented with three or more propositions, a genuine choice emerges. In the realm of negotiation, guiding both parties toward a choice that aligns with their interests can be the key to unlocking a mutually beneficial resolution.

In the intricate world of negotiations, the path to success lies in transcending emotional barriers, fostering intention, challenging entrenched beliefs, and ultimately, empowering both parties to make choices that lead to a harmonious resolution. It’s an art that requires patience, encouragement, and the judicious application of leverage, all in pursuit of a shared understanding that transforms conflict into collaboration.

The art of successful negotiation is both elegant and powerful. The outcome is not to win, but to find a winning resolution to the challenge that both parties can comfortably live with and enthusiastically action.

Barriers to successfully negotiating a conflict between parties include emotion and meaning, intention, rules, values and beliefs and lack of choice.

The success of a negotiation is to open the possibility of a different perspective and create a new way of understanding and viewing the conflict or challenge. It also involves patience, encouragement and leverage.

Emotion and Meaning

The emotion we attach to something is directly connected with the meaning we give it. If the meaning is that I will die if I don’t win, then the emotion will be very intense. If the meaning is that this is not important then the emotion will be much more relaxed.


An agreement cannot be reached until each party adopts the intention for resolution and agreement. This can organically occur during the process of sharing information between parties, or it can be created by offering alternatives and using the consequences of these alternatives as leverage to create the intention to settle the dispute. To ensure a fair and open negotiation, it is important not focus too heavily on leverage, too early in the process, and to allow for the information being shared to be understood and considered.

Rules, Values and Beliefs

When we believe something is right or wrong or true or false we are right and we are also wrong. In our opinion we are right and in others opinion we are wrong. Beliefs are also based in rules and values of right and wrong and what is reasonable and what is not and what is fair and what is not.

A breakthrough in a negotiation can be as simple as creating the possibility that an alternative point of view is reasonable and rational. An example is to demonstrate that in this instance, the belief may not be right, or that a rule is not necessarily appropriately applied, or that a value is not suitably relevant to the situation.


The most powerful decision one makes is by their own choice. If it is their choice then they own it and will enthusiastically take action. Two propositions is an option, and three or more propositions is a choice.


In the realm of negotiation, the power of objective assessment shines brightly, for any negotiation tainted by the shadows of subjective judgment is, in truth, not a negotiation at all. Instead, it morphs into an expectation or a demand, two entities far removed from the delicate dance of give and take. In the world of genuine negotiation, rationality and fairness must prevail, as parties strive to find common ground and mutual benefit. To wield the art of negotiation is to cast aside the weight of bias and personal inclinations, embracing the essence of compromise and understanding. For it is in this pursuit that true harmony and equitable agreements find their birthplace, unburdened by the trappings of subjective judgment.

Simple terms having no Judgement is the key to success

Consider the possibility that main reason people get stuck stuck is because of one key thing: Judgment. In the world of negotiation, being able to look at things objectively is super important. When judgment clouds our perspective, it stops being a negotiation and turns into either an expectation or a demand. Those are pretty different from the back-and-forth of real negotiation. In genuine negotiations, fairness and rational thinking are key. People involved need to find common ground and ways that everyone can benefit. To really be good at negotiation, you have to set aside personal biases and preferences. You’ve got to embrace the idea of compromise and understanding. That’s how you create fair agreements and harmony, without the baggage of personal judgment getting in the way.

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