Narcissistic Wife. 10 Ways a Narcissistic Wife Treats Her Husband
By Coach Liliya Labonte
Here are the 10 very common behaviors men experience from their Narcissistic Wives in marriage. Do not normalize this Psychological Abuse. Manipulation that involves Guilt, Shame, Fear, Threats, Gaslighting, and many many more should not be normalized. An abusive wife will do all of the above and then make you feel like you are the problem that caused it all. No, it is not your fault. If you are watching this and this is relatable to you, please don’t wait, get help and break free from the trauma bond.
Here’s what others had to say:
@panoramicview8173
A woman who genuinely looks out for men by exposing the female narcissist is a thing of beauty. Thank you very much.
@kingbee1971
I was raised by a narcissistic mother and married to a narcissistic wife for 15 years. Now happily divorced and living life on my terms. I have custody of my kids but I really feel for them having to spend weekends at my ex’s place, where the insane behavior continues. It motivates me to work on myself to be a great dad and show them how a healthy adult operates. Thanks for speaking about this topic, coach Liliya.
@KK-jo9yb
This is one of the best descriptions of my narcissistic wife I’ve ever heard. To live with a narcissist is like living with an abusive tyrant, their minds don’t function properly. They are utterly morally corrupt and will not allow reason or logic explain anything to them. They lie about everything. To live with one is absolutely miserable.
@cam_DA_Hawkdriver
I’ve been married for 20 years and this is one of the best descriptions of my wife’s actions toward me. I’ve been the one threatening to divorce for years, but would let it subside for my kids. We’re near the end now, as my daughter is old enough to adjust and my son is grown. So many things resonate from this video to let me know I’m on the right path to let this toxic relationship go. I’ve literally tried so many ways, but ready to let her go be whatever she is, but elsewhere. She’s called me the narcissist and even told my kids I was evil. She will have to answer her for actions, just as I. I just feel at peace knowing I am making the right decision to leave.
@howlinghusky7823
Wow!! That’s a perfect 10 out of 10!! I am SO GLAD I got that evil devil woman out of my life!! All my friends and family just told me “you dodged a big bullet”. Your video described her to a tee!!! The queen complex, the humble servant, the emotional emptiness, the lack of empathy, her selfishness, her credit card debt, and her absolutely PERFECT behaviour, I mean, she’s a lawyer and lawyers NEVER say sorry, ‘cause “sorry” is the same as admitting to guilt and she’s NEVER guilty.
Oh and EVERYTHING is about her, her house, her dogs, her work, her car, her family, her friends…. dare I ask for her to go out of her way for me, then came all the guilt trip games and mostly dodgeball lying excuses.
Goooooodness gracious am I glad that evil wicked woman is gone and out of my life!!! 2 years wasted!!!
@ericsmith-sx8xi
After watching these videos, I broke off an engagement. I thought I was doing something wrong. I dodged many years being miserable. Thank you.
@jimputnam7539
This was eye opening! I now understand what the real issue is in my marriage and will be filing for divorce to finally free myself from this ABUSE.
@Milotherotten
Wow! You perfectly described my ex-wife. We were married for 30 years, but I didn’t recognize how deeply she affected me, because I suffered from clinical depression, untreated, and I believed all of her gas lighting. Thank you for speaking out. Your affirmation plays a critical role in my healing from that.
@user-uh8kr4cx3j
Wow, it’s almost like I’ve just listened to my life for the past 5 years. Always suspected that my ex had an NPD, equally, always felt like I was to blame for everything period ! No longer in the relationship as made the single biggest hardest decision to leave the family home, the dust is still settling but feel I’m on the way back up and so just working on myself and being the best dad possible and being the best version of myself. What an awesome post, thank you Liliya.
@Woogadahoomph
I’m a survivor of 12 years and I still find myself recognising that the quiet days of my life without the blame and abuse is bliss!
@DarthIckus
You just described my wife to a tee. The only thing you didn’t discuss is the gaslighting and manipulation. I am awake to the game now and can catch it in real time, but she broke me first. It was the threat to divorce me if I accepted a legitimate job as a web developer that did it after almost 10 years of almost constant abuse and put downs. I relocated from Australia to Germany to marry her. It was great in the beginning. I would have left her years ago, but we three children together and I want to be an active part of their lives, which I cannot do from Australia. Besides, it’s actually quite entertaining catching the games in real time…
@lwbjarckrc1141
Spot on. My wife is like a machine – the same points you brought out are constant. I’ve put up with this for 30+ years so you could say it ruined my life. I don’t pay any attention to her constant rants and do what I please. Too bad there are people like this on the planet, and feel sorry for any others that are stuck in a marriage with this type.
@jonmilstein373
Oh my God, you absolutely nailed it and perfectly described the last seven years of my life. I am now thankfully getting free because of an excellent therapist who identified the patterns of narcissistic behavior. I was silent because of the shame of being abused, but not anymore! I’m dedicating my life to educating people about this topic. Thank you so much for your work and your videos.
